Chapter 8 — From Mindset to Heartset
In this chapter, we travel the longest distance known to humanity: the 45 cm from the head to the heart. While our mindset helps us navigate the logistics of life, it is our heartset that provides the compass. True wisdom arises when we learn to integrate the clarity of the intellect with the knowing of the intuition.
REFLECTIONS ON LIFE
Alba Ridao-Bouloumié
12/24/20252 min read


We live in a world that glorifies the analytical mind. We are taught to think, plan, analyse, and strategise. Our "mindset" is a powerful tool—it organises our reality and keeps us safe. But the mind is often rooted in the past or anxious about the future. It speaks loudly, often driven by logic or fear.
The heart, however, speaks a different language. It does not shout; it whispers. It does not demand certainty; it offers direction.
Moving from mindset to heartset doesn't mean abandoning logic. It means allowing the heart to lead and the mind to serve. It is the shift from asking "What makes sense?" to asking "What feels true?"
Chapter 8: From Mindset to Heartset
"Integrating intellect and intuition"
Reflections on Life - A Journey Within
Balancing the Scales
When we operate solely from the mind, life can feel rigid and exhausting, a constant series of problems to be solved. When we integrate the heart, life becomes a creation to be experienced.
An integrated life is one where the intellect protects the vision that the intuition provides. The mind builds the boat, but the heart charts the course.
"The heart has its reasons which reason knows nothing of."
— Blaise Pascal


The noise of the Mind, the whisper of the Heart
In this chapter, we travel the longest distance known to humanity: the 45 cm (eighteen inches) from the head to the heart. While our mindset helps us navigate the logistics of life, it is our heartset that provides the compass. True wisdom arises when we learn to integrate the clarity of the intellect with the knowing of the intuition.
Continue your journey → Chapter 9: Living in Flow
Head vs. Heart: Think of a decision you are currently weighing. What does your logical mind say is the "right" choice? Now, close your eyes and ask your heart: "What feels like the aligned choice?"
Identifying the Voice: Notice your inner dialogue. Does it sound like a frantic list-maker (Mindset) or a calm guide (Heartset)?
Integration: How can you use your logical mind to support what your heart truly wants to do?
Time for Reflection
Trusting your heartset requires courage. It asks you to trust a feeling before you have the evidence. It asks you to believe that you know more than you think you do.


Tuning into Heartset
To bridge the gap between your thoughts and your intuition, try this reflection:
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